When my mother died in June 2007, my father came to live with me. He had advanced cases of prostate cancer and Parkinson’s disease, and my life soon became a whirlwind of visits to doctors, hospitals, and testing facilities. I quickly discovered that these visits were much easier to manage when I developed a one-page summary of all Dad’s pertinent medical information that I could hand the health care providers at each facility.
Do you have medical conditions that cause you to doctor frequently? Do you care for someone who does? Then you, too, would benefit from a brief document listing all of your diagnoses, drugs and doctors. Use your favorite word-processing program and include the following:
Store the document on your computer, and update after each medical visit that causes a change in the information. Create a header or footer with the notation “Updated [date.]” Print out a fresh, updated copy for each new medical visit. Keep a couple of current copies on hand for “grab and go” situations like emergency room visits and ambulance transports.
Throughout the two years I cared for my father, I was told over and over again by doctors, nurses, billing clerks, testing technicians and others how helpful this information was, and how much time it saved them as they cared for Dad. In turn, it gave me satisfaction to know that I was doing something concrete and beneficial for my father. This can be so important for the caregiver facing the discouragement of tending to someone with a difficult, chronic or terminal illness.
This June my husband and I were fortunate enough to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary. In preparation for this milestone, I decided to organize the last 25 years worth of photos. Some were already stored in albums. I must admit, however, that somewhere before the halfway mark of our quarter century the momentum was lost and batches of photographs found their way into drawers, boxes and bags, randomly scattered throughout the house.
True to the saying, a single glance at a photo of an early vacation or one of the kids with a missing tooth was enough to elicit warm memories and funny stories – a thousand words.
Wait, a thousand words? Too bad they’re not worth a thousand dollars! It seemed like I had millions of them – and that’s excluding the digitals.
In a recent training on organizing and preserving photos I learned that in situations involving home-evacuation, pictures rank second only to living things (people and pets) for what we want rescued. If these precious and priceless memories are counted among our dearest and most prized possessions, finding a better way to keep them might be worth the effort.
Thanks to my recent endeavor, I am happy to report that the process for organizing photos is more fun and less painful than I had imagined (mind you, I had avoided this for over a dozen years and what I had imagined was not pretty). Since my experience was a pleasant one, I would like to share the process that took me and my memories from random chaos to easy-to -find, -use, and -share treasures. I suggest tackling the task through four steps: Gather, Sort, Scan, and Store.
Unless you have a deadline, two hours once or twice a week works well for this step.
Whatever your objective – whether you are looking to create albums for each of your children, vacation or anniversary albums – I found that organizing by year gave me the most flexibility and easiest search-ability later on.
There are certainly ways of doing this process yourself. You could use your home scanner if you have one, bring them in batches to scan at a local store or buy some type of bulk photo scanning machine. But, if you are facing years of photographs like I was, I highly suggest paying to have them bulk-scanned by a reputable company. There are several online companies that will accept your boxed photos and send them back to you along with CDs of all the scanned pictures. I personally used a local company, SaveMyPix.com. The prices are reasonable, they are timely and reliable and Max, the owner, picked them up and delivered them back to my doorstep. If you consider that you may wish to keep one to two hundred per year and multiply that by the number of years you are sorting through, bulk-scanning is well worth the money.
Finally, once you have all your photos on discs, you can decide how you’d like to “store” them. You may want to choose some to make into digitally-printed photo albums like the kinds offered by companies like Snapfish.com. Or you might want to organize them by person or event and break them down into multiple CD’s to make as gifts or screen-savers. You can also upload them to an online storage company to save in case something happens to your own discs.
In the end, I guarantee that the results of your effort will put a smile on your face worthy of a thousand words!
Time Management has changed. It is no longer about getting it all done, it’s about making smart choices about how to spend your time. Time Management theorists have been discussing methods for identifying what to do next for years. While in concept it would be great to have these options, all too often we spend our days putting out fires and doing what we have to do. By setting priorities we make better choices about which tasks we spend our time on. This results in fewer “fires,” greater satisfaction and better results. Over the years I’ve found the following process helps my clients in clarifying priorities:
1. SET GOALS – this helps you to become clear on what is really important to you. The process doesn’t need to take a long time. I suggest to my clients that they create one action statement for each relevant life area such as family, business, self-care, community, leisure, etc.
2. MATCH TASKS TO GOALS – when making a decision about if you should do something or not, determine if doing the task will assist you in meeting your goals. By thinking about the task in context to what is important to you/your goals, you will gain better insight and make better decisions. You might also notice:
3. CREATE A FILTER LIST – before you say yes to a task, a position, or an opportunity run it through a list you’ve created for yourself. There are no standard questions that should be on your list – this is your list, you get to create it and you get to evaluate it. What is important is that you are clear in determining what is important to you. Here are some questions you may want to include:
4. BECOME OK ABOUT SAYING “NO” – not just to others, but also to yourself. Giving up opportunities is hard, but never accomplishing anything important is harder. If you want to be true to yourself, saying “NO” is an important part of the process.
The final step is determining just how much time, energy and effort you want to put into a task you’ve decided is important to do. For this, we go to 80/20 rule or Pareto’s Principle – you get 80% of the results in 20% of the time. To get 100% of the results takes 80% longer. That means you can get it done fairly well in 1/5th of the time. For example I could write a really good blog post in an hour, or I could write a perfect blog post in 5 hours. I need to decide which things need to be perfect and which things are sufficient when they are really good. You can decide that too – that’s all part of setting priorities. I hope my 80% effort has inspired you to make smarter decisions about how you spend your time.
Garages tend to become the dumping ground during the winter. But the best thing about organizing the garage is that if we do a really good job, it usually stays that way for at least a year. In reality, families use garages as storage facilities rather than a place for the car. That stuff can include obsolete electronics, delayed decisions about where to put something, overflow from the house, and unneeded building supplies. Since the whole family probably uses the garage, bring everyone together and make it a family affair. Let’s break it down:
Start with a clean slate and unclutter
Stay in the Zone
Type of storage/system
Finally, if you enter your home through the garage make sure it’s clutter-free and welcoming. Hang a welcome home sign, clean the door, and put a nice door mat in place. You deserve a nice welcome home!
And remember: “Every time you put something back where it belongs, it’s a gift to yourself.”
As a professional organizer for 8yrs, my belief is that the process of organizing someone’s belongings is just a small part of a much larger picture. The clutter, confusion, and unhappiness are just the warning signs for much needed attention.
People often describe feelings of deadness, heaviness, and despair. We are their vehicle to getting them to their rainbow of possibilities and dreams. On a much deeper level they are craving this change and this is where the much needed attention is. These unrecognized hopes, dreams and passions lie underneath, like a simmering pot that has boiled over causing a mess, yet still churning the contents into something delightful.
Organizing the physical space is the bridge to opening up the emotional, mental, and energetic processes that are occurring at the same time. New habits, actions and ideas do emerge. I believe as organizers, we are assisting people on their journey. The outcome is transformation in all areas of life that are important to you. So I say, ‘Invest in Your Wellbeing!’ The changes will occur not only in your environment but in many unexpected areas as well!
I recently heard about a young child who was just diagnosed with Diabetes. At first, I felt sorrow for this child whose life has drastically changed. But then my thoughts turned to these ‘newly diagnosed’ parents, and my heart sank.
I can empathize, because my child was diagnosed with Juvenile Arthritis at the age of six. I was so overwhelmed, that although I am a professional organizer, my house was a cluttered mess. I was too emotional to focus on what needed to be done.
I finally asked a close friend for help. It was easy to put toys, books, and shoes away because everything had a home. My trouble came when we reached the new items – the reminders that my child has an incurable disease. The medication, paperwork, and supplies were everywhere, and I couldn’t look at it without tears.
We started in the living room. All physical therapy supplies went into an attractive container in the corner of the room for easy access. In the kitchen, an easily accessible cabinet shelf held a small bin for medication and supplies. The cabinet door had a medication schedule, to make sure we did not miss a dose.
The paperwork was harder, because it needed a filing system. We created an arthritis box, and stored it far away from my daily files. My friend did the tedious part of labeling the files and handling the papers. All I had to do was tell her where it goes.
By reorganizing my home to incorporate my child’s special needs, the arthritis became an ordinary part of daily life instead of an entity in itself. This reduced my overall stress, but more importantly, brought me closer toward acceptance.
If you are ‘newly diagnosed’, ask a friend for help. Or better yet, hire a professional organizer!